“I quickly learned that oral sex is real sex.” Ian Kerner, PhD. And in Female Sexuality, there is no right or wrong way to orgasm.
With great applications for men (and women) to practice becoming an expert on a woman’s personal orgasmic language. I recommend both partners read this book together. And practice.
More content and overview of She Comes First in this book review.
Whether you’ve been with your partner for 20 months or 20 years, there’s always an opportunity to learn and practice what makes you and your partner feel good in the sex department. I encourage you to find new ways to explore pleasurable options in your sex play.
By maintaining an open dialogue and bringing an open minded attitude, a couple’s sex life can be another intimate and private way to keep the glue of safety and connection ever-evolving.
The more open you are to learning and wanting to learn, the more your relationship will benefit. It’s quite a turn on when your partner finds your sexual pleasure of interest. And vice versa.