Are you ready to cultivate your native tongue and increase her Orgasmic Responsiveness? “I quickly learned that oral sex is real sex.” Ian Kerner, PhD. And in Female Sexuality, there is no right or wrong way to orgasm. With great applications for men (and women) to practice becoming an expert on a woman’s personal orgasmic [Read More…]
Sex & Relationships
I'm a Sex Positive Couples Therapist.
That means I'm comfortable talking about sex with couples. It means I may ask if you are having sex and is that important to you. I am not a trained Sex Therapist (and can supply a referral if needed). I am a Tantra-informed Couple Therapist and can speak to the power of a healthy sexual connection.
This page is just a sampling of how you can start - or build on - conversations about sex and intimacy with your partner. My advice: start slow, and be super respectful about each others feelings, thoughts and emotions regarding sex and intimacy.
Talking about sex and intimacy can be a vulnerable endeavor. It's an emotionally tender topic for any number of reasons. May these reasons not hinder ourselves from receiving what we most desire for our sexual-self.
Human sexuality is awesome and messy. And is in a progressive state of evolution based largely on our openness to learn. After all, the biggest sex organ we have is OUR BRAIN.
Here's some brain food:
Discover the SAVAGE LOVECAST, a weekly Q&A and Podcast from Dan Savage. Dan addresses every aspect of every kind of sex. Nothing is off limits. I guarantee you will learn something and feel more able to talk openly about sex. He's a role model there.
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for a Q&A with Dan Savage and "Mating in Captivity" author Esther Perel. The dialogue includes thoughts on Infidelity, the History of Marriage and Sparking Intimacy in relationships:
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. So we never need to judge ourselves based on others’ experiences. Because women vary, and that’s normal. Sex happens in a [Read More…]
Educational Sex Videos – Dr. Doe
These are just a sampling of the AWESOME and FUN How-To Sex Videos from Dr. Doe. There are many more on YouTube so have fun! What I like about her approach is the direct and no shame messages that go way beyond what Porn could teach you about a man or a woman’s pleasure. Sexplanations [Read More…]