I’ve put together this Resource Material for you. Enjoy!
“There’s nothing more difficult on the planet – than another person. None of us are easy. And we carry painful material from previous relationships into new relationships. Between Love and Work, Love is by far the more challenging.” – Stan Tatkin, PsyD
“We are all capable of being threatening to the ones we love. All of us. The decision to be in a committed relationship is to lovingly strive for a secure-functioning relationship.
It’s a scary world out there. We are in the fox hole together. It’s our job to make each other feel safe. WE must have each other’s back. If we don’t protect one another, who will?”
– Stan Tatkin, PsyD, PACT Institute – The Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy
This Video does an EXCELLENT JOB of explaining how the Brain influences Attraction:
Here’s MATING IN CAPTIVITY author, Esther Perel, on how our Mind can collect evidence against those who we love most. Evidence that they don’t really love us. And what you can do if you live with a partner like this: